An Obsessed Feeling

In our uncertain life we all once or even many of the times feel something, somehow and somewhat the maturity of our mind where the situation is we want ourselves to be special in an own way.

Better we think, the best we deserve and latest we imagine, newest we preserve.

When we have our selfish character on over ourself we build in a divine soul for our understanding that we are doing the correct in a right way... Isn't it a bit little madness type thought?

No, I don't say that possessiveness towards yourself is a curse or crime infact it is good to have self care so that you can overcome the situations where you are all alone and left scattered and hurted.

Almost everyone feels the same when it comes to ourselves and our reputation.

Some say we deserve better and some say we are not meant for it but has anyone anytime said that whatever it is you just go for it?

No, none of the whole has said this because everyone has a jealous corner in there heart which once in the lifetime comes in the way of our smooth running era and makes us do such things which may hurt anyone or break a bond.

But has anyone ever felt this matter that actions done in a hurry, anger and aggression often leads to hurting ourselves as well as others; this is the point where you lost faith on yourself and your self love.

If someone is thinking this is a smart move then you're completely wrong!

Losing faith on yourself is life losing your self respect and stopping to love yourself is like deteriorating your own reputation in your point of view.

Becoming superstar is easy but becoming a self star is quite difficult.

Then what is a self star?

Simply it's definition is as similar that of a superstar.

Like a superstar is the one who is very famous, glamorous, charming in the whole world and is known by one and all, similarly a self star is the soul of your own whom you know very clearly and understand every single meaning about it and makes you take decisions all over the world and infront of the entire society.

So moreover we grow up we learn to play our role in and out on this live stage of hurdles and pain.

And with experience whatever we do it reflects our personalities amongst our surroundings and belongings.

Explaining what job does work in and with us is really hard, but finding your cup of tea is your duty and is a charge to be taken to bring on joy and engagement in life.

Excitement level increases when someone favours you as per you wanted to be done. When someone talks to you about the speciality in you. When someone asks you your favorite. When someone mentions you as an example. When some feels the same as you feel.

These are the nature or signs of self obsession. And a person with self obsession is not a bad person by heart but sometimes makes a difference through the mind.

When mind takes over your heart then that's not self love or obsession that is obesity which is harmful to both yourself as well as society.

Then how to overcome it?

There's a process through which it can be done.

The way contains different steps:-

1. Self love is fair but not self obesity.

2. Self respect is important but not self ego.

3. Self reputation is needed but not self pride.

If one needs pride and honor then it's not shown by himself/herself own rather it must be provided by others, your surrounding, your system and your society.

“We love ourselves, but hurt themselves,

We praise us, but depress others,

We suprass our efforts, but suppress defaults,

We impress hearts, but compress minds,

We try to be success, but result in obsess.”

LOVE BUT DON'T CROSS THE MEANING OF DOVE.